The above is a photo of a tablescape I made for a dear friend’s bridal shower on 2019, and I have been wanting to share it on my website since then (however, I didn’t have a website at that time, so this has been a long time coming). It was so exciting to co-host with Kirstyn’s mother, Karen, and Kirstyn’s bridesmaids on this event. My family has known Kirstyn, since she was about 11 years old and her brother Dillon and our son, played on the same select baseball team and then later in high school, they played against each other. Always, we would share a bleacher bench for the whole game when we were playing for the same team, but when the boys were playing against each other we still would share a bench for at least a part of the game. We enjoyed getting caught up on each other’s lives. What a joy it was to watch the kids grow up through all those years!
All of our kids grew up and competed in their sports beyond high school – Dillon was drafted and played for various MLB teams after high school and Kirstyn went on to play college softball at the University of Washington while our son played baseball at Pepperdine. During those college years, I had the privilege one weekend of seeing Kirstyn play in Seattle and had an opportunity to meet Nigel, who would become Kirstyn’s husband. So it was extra special to be one of the cohosts of the shower of this wonderful couple.
We decided to have the shower at our lake house, and I began to plan the tablescapes and serving tables early. Karen and the other cohosts began planning all the other details, food, shower decorations, games, etc.
I had purchased some vintage dishes I loved, that I thought would be perfect of the shower. They were the “American Atelier Hydrangea” dishes. I started planning the table, thinking at first that I would use only the salad plates from this beautiful set in the way shown below.
However, I then tried the place setting using both the dinner plate and the salad plate, and I loved that look even more.
The above shows the comparison of the next two place settings I tried. One with only the salad and dinner plates in the hydrangea pattern (on the left in the photo above) and the other with with a Bordallo Pinheiro charger, then the hydragea dinner plate and salad plate on top. (on the right in the photo) Which “look” do you like the best?
You may have noticed the napkin rings in the above photos. They are all marked “Pia” and “Philippines”. I first started collecting these when my mother-in-law purchased a set for me, to match our wedding china. As I considered some of the napkin rings, I went back and forth over whether to use all of the same pattern and color at one table, but my friend Michelle who was kindly helping me plan and get ready for the party, recommended I vary the kind of flower at each plate. I went to my collection and picked ones I thought would go well with the colors in the hydrangea plates. These “Pia” napkin rings were often sold in the department stores in the 1980’s and 1990’s. I love their detail and variety and I loved having muliple kinds on the tables. Michelle also loaned me some of her serving trays, some hydrangea plates and some Bordallo Pinheiro chargers-it seems that some friends who think alike, also choose some of the same dish patterns, which worked out quite well.
The above shows some of the “Pia” napkin rings that I have collected over the past 32 years, often from eBay and Etsy. Surprisingly, I am still finding some online that I have never seen before.
Because the shower was to take place in July (in Texas) we didn’t really think long about having it outside – due to the heat at that time of year – but instead we tried to bring the garden look indoors in the air conditioning. Therefore I began planning some flower arrangements inside. The first ones I selected were artificial flower arrangements from Homegoods, that luckily were in the perfect colors.
By sheer luck the previous owners of our house had put in raised flower beds directly underneath the window, and we had recently converted them from evergreen shrubs to flowers. They helped bring the garden feel inside as well.
I decided we would use the silk flowers on the window sills, and real flowers on the tables, but the real flowers would come later.
Aside from the dining table decor, another thing I worked on in the days before the shower were the “Wedding Bears”. I added my North American Bears to our wall unit top, this decor included a bride, groom, flower girl, photographer, and wedding guests.
The night before the shower Kirstyn and her mom came to spend the night along with some dear, long time friends of theirs. They brought the food, and the items for the mimosa bar, and many shower decorations and we spent the evening cooking, decorating and visiting. For those of you who have read my blog, you probably already know that I was not one of those cooking – as cooking is something I am not particularly good at. But I had offered to do the fondue dessert table, as I can heat things and cut things.
While most were cooking, my husband and I headed to Kroger with a hydrangea plate in tow, to pick some flowers for the tables. The person who helped us had recently retired from owning her own flower shop, so she was incredible at looking at the plates and helping us pick things that would look great with them. In many cases she adapted things they had or made new arrangements from scratch to coordinate with the color scheme of the shower. (it takes a village). I absolutely love real flowers and am excited whenever I can use them. However, I have since become aware of the toxicity of hydrangeas for dogs and cats. Since our new puppy is one who is likely to eat everything I plan to substitute silk hydrangeas on future tablescapes.
In the morning, we continued getting things ready. All of our overnight guests, and others had done an incredible job with food, games, etc. My friend Michelle, who helped me earlier, also volunteered to arrange the fondue table and to restock food throughout the shower. This was a wonderful blessing! We had always known that Michelle was incredible at cooking and entertaining, but we found out she has an additional super power of arranging fondue tables artfully!
Also in the morning, my friend who is also a photographer arrived to take the pictures of Kirstyn, Karen, other family members, bridesmaids, and guests. It was amazing to have someone take photographs for us! Mary is a fantastic photographer, and amazing at making people feel comfortable while being photographed. Having her there allowed the family and friends to focus on their time together.
Soon the guests began to arrive. It was wonderful to see the excitement Kirstyn and her friends, as she had been out of the state and country often in the past few years due to work and college.
Thanks for joining me, for a look back into Kirstyn’s shower in 2019. In the years since I have continued my tablescape designs, and am (as you know) writing a blog about tablescapes, holiday decorating, Lake Life, sunsets, puppies and many other things. I hope you can join me again!
I wanted to post the tablescapes (both the dining tables and serving tables) at this time of year, as I think the dining table would be a great tablescape for Mother’s Day. I also think it would be great for a spring luncheon! These hydrangea dishes can often be found on both eBay and Etsy by searching “American Atelier Hydrangea dishes” or a similar table can be made using the following current patterns – “Hydrangea Everlasting” and “Certified International Hydrangea Garden” both carried by Wayfair, and other retailers. Also, “Lenox – Butterfly Meadow” is another beautiful current pattern. A similar table could also be made by using any dishes with any kind of flowers and bright, spring colors. The Bordallo Pinheiro Lemon Leaf Chargers used on this table are vintage and only available at times on eBay or Etsy or vintage shops However, chargers with a similar look are the Bordallo Pinherio Geranium chargers and they are a current pattern.
Hydrangea Dishes – American Atelier pattern “Hydrangea” – eBay and Etsy
Bordallo Pinheiro “Lemon Leaf Charger” – discontinued – Occasionally available on Ebay or Etsy or you can substitute a different Bordallo Pinheiro charger from the Bordallo Pinheiro website or Amazon, Neiman Marcus or Horchow
Flower Napkin Rings – vintage- marked “Pia” and “Philippines” – originally sold at department stores – now available at eBay, Etsy, (search Pia Napkin Rings and Philippines napkin rings) also available at various vintage/antique shops
Spring Silk Flowers in white basket – Homegoods (seasonal)
Iced Beverage Dispensers – Homegoods
Kate Spade Larabee Dot Pink Tablecloths, Table runner, and Napkins – Homegoods and eBay in 2019
Waterford Iced Beverage Marquis Markham – Macy’s
Waterford flutes Marquis Markham – Macy’s
North American Vanderbear Bears and friends– Cornelius, Alice, Fuzzy, Fluffy, Muffy, and Hoppy the rabbit, LuLu the dog (all are plush animals) – Available at most times from eBay or Etsy
Outfits for North American Vanderbears, and friends in wedding “scene”
Bridal Couple – outfits for Cornelius and Alice are from “A Wedding Collection – Remembearances”
Guests – Outfits for Cornelius, Alice, Fuzzy, Fluffy, Muffy are from “A Garden Party”
Flower girl Muffy – oufit is “Bells are Ringing- Heading to a Wedding”
Photographer Hoppy – outfit is “Great Masterpieces – Artistes at work” and the camera is “Great Masterpieces- Artistes at Work” accessory
Ring Bearer Lulu – outfit is “Bells are Ringing- Heading to a Wedding” ring bearer outfit
Potted live hydrangea plants – Kroger
Live Cut Flower arrangements – Kroger
Fondue Fountain – Sephra Classic Home Fondue Fountain, heated basin, 18”, Whisper Quiet Motor, 4-6 lb capacity originally from Amazon, now out of stock from Amazon and Sephrausa.com but expected to be in stock in late May 2023 https://www.sephrausa.com/the-classic-18-home-fondue-fountain
Serving Dishes – origin unknown
Flatware – “Community by Onieda – Marquette” pattern is currently available at Amazon.
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I hope you have had a chance to check out my first sunset post, I am amazed and blessed by the sunsets each night. More sunset posts are coming soon.
The first one I shared was from April 2, 2023
I also think you may enjoy my most recent sunset post
Also, this week is my puppy’s first birthday, so I decided to try a recipe for “pupcakes” and make a dog tablescape for the human friends and a smaller dog “tablescape” for Simba and his dog friends. I hope you get a chance to check out the pictures and post next week.
Following is a list of websites I really like! They are listed under the day of the week where they also host a Family Friendly “Link Parties” aka “Blog Hops”.
If you click on the name of the blog (in blue) on the evening of the day of the week they are listed under, it should take you to the Link Party, where many bloggers have joined with them to share their own ideas. I love how the link parties connect you with both a great blog, and other blogger’s ideas as well! Many thanks to all these bloggers for bringing so many ideas to all of us!!!
You can actually find these link parties any day of the week, by clicking on the website name below, but once you click, you may need to scroll thru a few entries to find the link party you are looking for.
Life as a Leo wife (Nikki), Eclectic Red Barn (Beverly), Décor Craft Design (Mel) ,A Labour of Life (Linda), Ducks ‘n a Row (Sinea), Love My Messy Messy Mess (Katie) host “Happiness is Homemade” Link Party. I love checking out the home decor, holiday decorations and current projects of all the hostesses as well as the ideas from their link party !
Life and Linda hosts “Love Your Creativity Link Party”. I love checking out Linda’s gorgeous holiday decorations and tablescapes, and her chandelier decorations are a beautiful finishing touch!!
The House on Silverado hosts – “Sundays on Silverado” link party. I am fairly new to Niky’s site but am loving her holiday decorating and her new grandma stories!!
Ridge Haven Homestead – “Sunday Sunshine” Blog Hop. In addition to the blog hop, I am enjoying reading about Laurie’s homestead, the “off the grid” lifestyle they are living and the cabin they are building.
April J Harris – hosts Hearth and Soul Link Party monthly on the first Sunday of the month. I am enjoying reading about April’s traveling adventures, as well as her projects at home!
Life Tales Books Blogspot hosts Will Blog for Comments Link Party. Jennifer is a Photos and Story Treasures Consultant, and I am enjoying her ideas on photos and memory books, as well as her link party!
Holly-Pink Lady(Holly) and Sunshine and books blog (Sarah) host “Hello Monday Link Party”. In addition to the link party, I am enjoying Sarah’s book recommendations, and Holly’s recipes and party ideas.
Between Naps on the Porch hosts “Metamorphosis Monday” posts, which are all about “Befores and Afters”. I love seeing Susan’s amazing home projects which are very inspiring!! I always come away with some great ideas from her posts and from those who have linked up!!
The following link, Senior Salon Pit Stop will get you to the link party on Esme’s site as well as getting you to some great recipes and other ideas!
Charlene at A Pinch of Joy hosts “Busy Mondays”. Charlene’s website is all about home decorating, and holiday decorations and recipes. The first two things are things I love to do and the Recipes are things I like to eat!
Good random fun blogspot hosts The Good.Random.Fun. link party Tamar’s website has some great photography, interesting places to visit, and thoughts on many things. Recently, I enjoyed reading about Hanukkah celebrations!
Beverly at Eclectic Red Barn, Nicky at Life as a Leo Wife, Michelle at Moms are frugal and a few other hostesses host “You’re the Star Blog Hop” I love checking out these websites and the link party for holiday decor, crafts, money saving ideas and tablescapes.
A Stroll Thru Life hosts the “Inspire me Tuesday” link party. Marty has an eye for design and decorating, and turning your house into a home. I always enjoy reading about her projects.
Eclectic Red Barn (Beverly) and Penny’s Passion (Penny) host the “Wonderful Wednesday Blog Hop” which often opens on Tuesday evenings. I have enjoyed Beverly’s Red Barn project and her projects and decorating . Penny’s website has both projects and recipes I have enjoyed reading about – and more – see “Thinking Out Loud” under “Thursday” in this list.
Jenerally Informed hosts the “Happy Now Link Party”. Jen from Jenerally informed and Leslie from playmates to parties host “happy now” which brings many craft and decorating ideas and recipes for fun holiday foods.
Perfectly Imperfect-LWL hosts the “Tell It To Me Tuesday Link Party” which brings many decorating ideas, recipes, and ideas for family activities.
Kim and Cassie from Lou Lou Girls host the the “Fabulous Party”. Lou Lou Girls post unique recipes, family activities, DIY and party ideas!
Marci at Stone Cottage Adventures hosts “Tuesdays with a Twist”. Marci posts on gardening, sewing, recipes, crafts and books! Marci’s link party contains many other fun ideas as well.
My Wee Abode (Julie) hosts the “Tuesday Turn About” Link Party. Julie is turning her small home into a charming coastal farmhouse home. Her website and link party include great home decorating, DIY, craft projects and recipes.
Karin’s Kottage hosts the “Karin’s Kottage Link party”. I am also enjoying keeping up with Karin’s Italian Palace remodel! as well as her decorating ideas, crafts, grandchild activities and home projects.
French Ethereal hosts a “Share Your Style” link party where decorating, recipes, fashion, tablescape styles are all shared.
Esme Salon recently began hosting a “Wordless Wednesday” photography link party – I can’t wait to link up!
Creatively Beth hosts the “Creatively Crafty” Link Party. Beth’s website contains wonderful craft posts, including amazing up-cycle, from scratch, and Dollar Store Crafts. Beth’s link party contains a variety of family friendly posts including recipes, crafts, and holiday decor.
Ridge Haven Homestead hosts the Homestead Blog Hop. I am also enjoying reading about the off the grid home that Laurie and her family are building.
Karin at Fifth Sparrow No More, hosts “Whimsy Home Link Party”. Karin posts about Finding the Beauty – in decorating, travel and faith and family!
Cecelia at My Thrift Store Addiction hosts “Vintage Charm” link party. What Cecelia does with her thrift store finds is so creative!
Lydia at Pandora and Max hosts the “All Seasons” Link Party. Lydia’s recent blog entry was all about her trip – and the sunsets are a “must see” – fabulous!
I often participate in Between Naps on the Porch Tablescape Thursday. I have been following Susan for quite a long time, and absolutely love her Tablescapes!!! I also love the ideas shared on her Tablescape Thursday link party!
Katherine’s corner hosts the “TFT – Thursday Favorite Things” blog hop. I love the assortment of wonderful decorating, recipe, tablescape, and inspirational ideas found here.
Southern Sunflowers hosts their “Home Matters Link Party” at 8 CT on Thursday. I have really enjoyed linking to their link party and the various decorating, recipe, tablescape and craft ideas found on this website and their “Home Matters” Link Party.
Penny’s Passion hosts the “Thinking Out Loud Link Party” which often begins on Thursday. Thinking out Loud is a great post published each Thursday, and covers many interesting topics. Today the topic was “elf on the shelf – for empty nesters” and I love the traditions Penny has started in her home. So cute!
Roentare.zenfolio blog hosts a photography link party each week. The photography is absolutely gorgeous, as are the places he and his wife photograph!
Good Random Fun hosts the “Little Things” link party, which I enjoy. Its a place for sharing and reading about lots of different topics and ideas.
Marsha in the Middle and Melynda, from Scratch Made Food for Hungry People, and Lisa, from Boondock Ramblings host “Weekend Traffic Jam” which goes live on Thursday at 8:30 pm CT. Marsha posts about Fashion and the link party contains holiday decorations, fashion, and recipes (to name a few of the family friendly links).
Stephanie at Crazy Little Lovebirds hosts the “Crazy Little Lovebirds link party.” It is a gathering for home decor ideas, recipes, tablescapes, reflections, etc. I am enjoying being a part fo this group.
Building Our Hive hosts the “Funtastic Friday” Link Party which includes recipes, home decor, tablescapes, crafts, travel and other family friendly posts.
Cindy at County Road 407 hosts the “Farmhouse Friday” Link Party, which begins at 6:30 am CT each Friday and features home decor – all styles; holiday decorating, tablescapes, crafts, etc.
Andrea at The Cottage Market hosts “A Morning Cup of Joe” link party. Both the website and the link party feature DIY projects, Recipes, home decor, crafts and holiday decorations.
Erika at A Little Bit of Everything and Andrea at Momfessionals, host “Friday Favorites”. Both websites and the link party feature family activities, home decor, fashion, entertaining, recipes, and holiday decorations and traditions.
At Lou Lou Girls Kim, Cassie and Amber bring lots of good recipes and family activities to us and also host “Fabulous Friday” a link party that brings us recipes, holiday decor, family activities and many other family friendly ideas!
Pieced Pastimes Hosts “Saturday Sparks Party” which includes home decors, recipes and holiday fun foods, tablescapes, crafts, etc. Among the many things I appreciate at Pieced Pastimes is the first picture of many posts, where Suzanne shows her current view at home (in New Hampshire) I love her wonderful view in all weather!
Your comments mean the world to me! I would love to hear any comments you have on this post, or any special memories you have of your wedding shower, or of planning a wedding shower for a friend or family member! Please scroll to the bottom of this post for the comment section! Thanks!
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Michelle Ayoub | 28th Apr 23
How sweet of you to include me in this table scape! I loved working with you and learned so much about table scapes that day!! Now I have to say this post was also perfect timing since we’re going to be having a wedding shower in the family soon!
Patty | 28th Apr 23
Michelle, We really appreciate all your work on the shower, both ahead of time and the day of. You were (are) amazing! I’m excited about the coming shower in your family! I would love to help out with that, and merge dishes again too, if that is the color scheme you are looking for! Can’t wait! – Patty
Allyson @ Southern Sunflowers | 4th May 23
Your shower tablescape is gorgeous and I love those napkin rings! I’d like to invite you to share each week at the Home Matters Link Party Thursday (9pm) through Monday. We have 12 features each week. Hope to see you there!
Patty | 4th May 23
Allyson, Thank you so much for you kind comment on the shower tablescape and napkin rings. Thanks too for the link party invitation! I will “see” you there! – Patty
Katherines Corner | 14th May 23
Thank you so much for sharing your sweet bridal shower at the TFT party. You have a lovely home and everything looked amazing! It’s a joy to have you joining us and thank you for sharing the party with your readers. Hugs!
Patty | 17th May 23
Katherine, Thank you so much for the warm welcome! Its a joy to be a part of your blog and link party!
Patty
Carol | 6th May 24
Love the shower tables . Beautiful, bright, cherry, happy, for a very happy event. Love the hydrangea plants that coordinated with all. All crystal sparkling. Very inviting. The bride must have been on cloud 9. Nice how you spread the food tables out- to help spread the traffic.
Beautiful.
Patty | 6th May 24
Carol, Love your comment! Thank you so much!! I appreciate you noticing every little detail at the Wedding shower. Kirstyn is such a wonderful person – it was so special for me to get the be one of the hostesses for her shower! So glad our happiness for Kirstyn & Nigel shows is the decorations!!! Thank you for such a special comment! – Patty
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